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The Space Between

I Stopped Doing This for a Week


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Hello, Reader

Last week my mind felt crowded.

Loud. Urgent. Constantly reacting.

Headlines. Commentary. Opinions. Predictions. It felt like there was always something I needed to process, respond to, or worry about.

And I noticed something.

I wasn’t just informed.

I was flooded. My nervous system was on overload, and I couldn’t stop being angry. At everything.

So, this week, I tried something simple.

I reduced my input.

I stopped watching constant YouTube videos of self-improvement simultaneously with current political events. I stopped marinating in commentary all day. I didn’t ignore the world. I didn’t bury my head in the sand. I just stopped consuming it nonstop.

And something shifted.

I felt calmer.

Not disconnected. Not apathetic. Just calmer.

I was able to concentrate on what I actually needed to do in my personal life. I got some much-needed tasks done like finances and a little planning. My thoughts weren’t racing ahead to the next crisis. My nervous system wasn’t bracing all day long.

It made me remember something important:

We are not built for constant stimulation.

Our minds were never designed to process global crises, political commentary, outrage cycles, and breaking news every hour of the day. Of course, we feel anxious. Of course, we feel overwhelmed. We are feeding our nervous systems more than they were meant to carry.

There’s a difference between being informed and being saturated.

There’s a difference between caring and being consumed.

When we’re exposed to constant urgency, our bodies stay in a low-level state of alert. It feels productive. It feels responsible. But over time, it’s exhausting and not feasible.

What do you do when you feel like you need to do something and right now?

What can you reasonably do?

The world is too big for you to solve it all by yourself. Join an organization and do one task only maybe.

In the meantime: Self Care.

Resting your mind isn't a weakness.

It’s biological.

It’s necessary.

It’s how clarity returns.

It’s how we protect our ability to think clearly and act responsibly instead of reacting emotionally.

This week, I didn’t solve the world’s problems.

But I did protect my energy.

I focused on my responsibilities. I showed up where I could. I gave my brain space to breathe. And I noticed that when I’m calmer, I’m actually more capable.

More present.
More thoughtful.
More effective.

The world is still complex. There are still real issues happening. Reducing input didn’t erase that reality.

But it did remind me that I don’t have to carry it all at once.

We are allowed to rest.

We are allowed to step back from the noise.

We are allowed to build steadiness instead of urgency.

And maybe that steadiness is what makes real change possible in the first place.

This week felt lighter.

Not because the world changed.

But because I changed what I fed my mind.

In a world where we are constantly bombarded to react and divide, maybe the most radical thing we can do is rest up.

Maybe all we can effectively change is ourselves and our own little world and raise the frequency of the world along with others to that of love.

What would happen if you gave your mind one week of rest?

Write back and tell me your answer — or share your experience.

While I can’t reply to everyone, I do read every response and genuinely love hearing from you.

Your story might even be featured in an upcoming letter (with your consent of course).

That's all for this week.

See you on the flip side.

~ Michele O'Donnell


Michele O'Donnell

This is The Space Between — where we slow down enough to see what’s really happening.

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The Space Between is a reflective newsletter published every Saturday. We explore the in-between seasons of life — where personal experience meets the larger human story. Through grounded insight on grief, growth, culture, and change, it creates space to pause, feel honestly, and let insight soften into clarity.

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